Monday, November 1, 2010

Does Attraction has an Important Role?

Do you ever wonder why you are drawn to the people that you appeal to you the most? The fact that many of us singles think we have a type makes me wonder if we think about why. Why does the person with the sense of humor seem to appeal to you more?

If we think about what gets our attention, does it matter why? I ask because figuring out what is behind our attraction may explain other mysteries. Such as, if this type attracts me, why doesn’t it seem to work out?

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Do You Want to Have Sex In Public Places

When you are young, frisky, horny, and in love, or in a long-term couplehood that needs spicing-up in the sex department, then sex in public sounds like a good idea. Doing it in an open domain has been in everybody's top 5-fantasy list.

The risk of getting caught seems so rousing and fun at the same time. Whether you want to do it in the mall's parking area or in a club's bathroom, you have to keep in mind that when you want to have sex in public, location is important. Here are some points to remember on how to have sex in public.

Friday, October 8, 2010

Ways to Punish the Infidelity of Your Partner

Recently researchers reported about an unusual case of four women, who awaited their unfaithful playboy in a hotel room and glued his penis on his belly as a sign of revenge. Of course, there are even more extreme cases. Some unfaithful partners, for example, suffered from cuttings, burns and bites.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Orgasm & Intimacy

Orgasms come and go - excuse the pun - but intimacy is constant and abiding between two people who know and love each other.

Intimacy is a state of mind that transcends the physical. It's a feeling that comes from knowing and loving your partner, and it can't be attained purely by physical stimulation. You don't need to love someone to have an orgasm, but it's impossible to be truly intimate with someone unless you have love, or at least great liking, for one other.

Intimacy comes from shared experience, and profound knowledge of each other. Intimacy is connecting and sharing on a level much deeper than mere physical sensation. It can be conveyed in a thought, a look, the lightest of touches. It's knowing what your loved one needs, sometimes before they even know it themselves.

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Seven Steps to a Healthy Sex Life

A healthy sex life is an important part of a healthy lifestyle. However, many times when you feel too tired or stressed, it can be difficult to maintain a good sexual relationship. There are many factors that contribute to low sexual desire including obesity, poor diet and stress. I was intrigued by a recent article reported on msn.com that suggested seven important steps for men to have a healthier sex life. Here is a brief summary:

Lose the weight
Testosterone is the male sexual hormone which is normally broken down in the body’s fat cells. Abdominal fat breaks down testosterone extra quickly and leads to testosterone deficiency. Low level of this hormone can reduce your ability to have satisfying sex. By decreasing the size of your belly, you can increase the amount of testosterone and thereby boost your sex life.

Do More Squats
Doing regular exercise, especially concentrated below the waist can increase the blood flow in your pelvic region. Mark gives excellent squats techniques in his recent post proper-squat-technique.
Eat More Walnuts or Almonds
Eating nuts and other foods such as beans, cold-water fish (tuna, salmon), soy products, and oats that are rich in amino acid called arginine, can promote a process called nitric-oxide release, which relaxes blood vessels and increases the blood flow.

Lower Your Cholesterol
High cholesterol is the risk factor for various diseases. By lowering the cholesterol level, you can not only ward off many diseases, but it will facilitate blood flow and increase your sex drive.

Pay Attention
Do you have burning sensation when you urinate? Are you seeing blood? Or is there another discomfort when you adjust yourself? If so, and the problem persists for a long time, you should see a doctor.

Do a Self-Exam Every Six Months
Feel around your testicles for hardness and discomfort, and if you sense anything that feels like a knuckle, see your doctor.

Get a Physical Once a Year
Having a physical once a year is necessary to have healthy life. Ask your doctor about your blood pressure, cholesterol, and testosterone levels. If you’re having problems with any of those things, it can eventually influence your sex life.
Many times it happens that we become so busy in our social and professional life that we forget to invest time on our health that eventually leads to many health conditions like libido. Healthy sexual life energizes the partners and keeps them healthy.